Now you are stuck in a problem and your only judgement to it is "either live with it or hang yourself up and the most better one is to kill or segregate all the disturbing creatures!".Dude, please wake up, look at the world and see,it isn't that small as you are perceiving it.
Sometimes, there are few situations in our life(especially problematic ones) when our brain stops working, everything around us seems frustrating, every single tiny bit of action of others, seems as a threat. You start feeling that the mere presence of others around you is to only worsen your condition.
Some brave beings try to handle it, and some innocent ones fall in the trap of the situation and get entangled into it.To those, who think that they can't handle it, instead they should know that they don't need to handle it.All what is required is to have a look at the prism keeping it at a different angle.
The simplest solution to this problem which I can think of, is to perceive the problem as an outsider. As a consequence, you would realize that you are giving unnecessary importance to the people you think are responsible for the problems in your life.They actually should have zero importance in your mind. And more than half of the stuff,which you think are troublesome, aren't of that much value and they all can be easily tackled.
If others think or does something which they shouldn't then that's their problem, not yours. If someone doesn't like you or hate you for a petty or no reason, then that is again his/her very own problem.It is them who need to think and care about it, not you.
And yes, it is "perfectly fine" if there exist few people who doesn't like you, Of course you can't stand on everyone's expectations, so let them be. What you need to care about, is that, any of your deeds shouldn't make yourself guilty. That's it! Rest of the things shouldn't be of your concern. Your goal, aim in life and your family, require and has the right to demand your topmost attention,Better Focus On Them!!
Sometimes, there are few situations in our life(especially problematic ones) when our brain stops working, everything around us seems frustrating, every single tiny bit of action of others, seems as a threat. You start feeling that the mere presence of others around you is to only worsen your condition.
Some brave beings try to handle it, and some innocent ones fall in the trap of the situation and get entangled into it.To those, who think that they can't handle it, instead they should know that they don't need to handle it.All what is required is to have a look at the prism keeping it at a different angle.The simplest solution to this problem which I can think of, is to perceive the problem as an outsider. As a consequence, you would realize that you are giving unnecessary importance to the people you think are responsible for the problems in your life.They actually should have zero importance in your mind. And more than half of the stuff,which you think are troublesome, aren't of that much value and they all can be easily tackled.
If others think or does something which they shouldn't then that's their problem, not yours. If someone doesn't like you or hate you for a petty or no reason, then that is again his/her very own problem.It is them who need to think and care about it, not you.
And yes, it is "perfectly fine" if there exist few people who doesn't like you, Of course you can't stand on everyone's expectations, so let them be. What you need to care about, is that, any of your deeds shouldn't make yourself guilty. That's it! Rest of the things shouldn't be of your concern. Your goal, aim in life and your family, require and has the right to demand your topmost attention,Better Focus On Them!!
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